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english and pakistani wedding any ideas:
Hi,
A friend who's helping me prepare to launch my celebrant website saw your post and suggested I get in touch - I haven't launched the site yet but I'm looking to offer a service for people like yourself who want a really special ceremony which doesn't fit into any one tradition. If you want to get in touch I'll be happy to tell you more and discuss your options. You can email me at
riverjgu@gmail.comHere's what I'll be saying on my home page:
my aim is to support you to create a ceremony that feels exactly right for you at this time, and is welcoming and inclusive for everyone you want to take part.I want to work with you to design and create the ceremony that’s right for you, whatever your beliefs or outlook. I have lots of experience of working with others to design and conduct unique ceremonies, and can support you in various different ways depending on what you need. I can help you with finding the right setting, the right words, and other content for your ceremony, and bringing in all the sources of support which will help to make this occasion the best it can be.
And my page on weddings and partnerships:
Weddings and Partnerships
What’s most important is what this occasion means to the two of you. What do you want to say to each other and how do you want to say it?
Aside from the legal aspects, your ceremony can take place wherever you choose, and the way you express the commitment you’re making is also entirely up to you. I will listen to you, and offer suggestions so we can work out a format that feels right for you.
You might want to write your vows, read them aloud when the time comes, or learn them by heart. You might prefer to express your feelings in silence, with gifts or gestures, or you might want to speak spontaneously in your ceremony. Depending on what you want and need, I can offer help with composing your vows, choosing formats, perfecting wording and preparing for public speaking.
When it comes to the ceremony, it will be important to make sure that everyone feels welcome and understands what’s going on. We can work out ways to help your friends and family feel actively involved in supporting the step you’re taking, which might include designing special roles in the ceremony for important people in your lives.
i'm english and my partner is half english and half pakisatani we are getting married next year april/may time. as there is going to be people from both sides we want to please them all has anyone got any ideas on how we can pull this off and still have a great day. my family are not over religious so it is not important to get married in a church, so civil civil ceramony seems like the logical way to do it but the mosque man will also have to be there, if anyone has had a wedding the same or is planning one please get in touch as i am at a loss,
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